Forget the past?
I'm Licia, I am 45 years old, recently single after a 11 year relationship with a man who turned out not to be the right person for me. I find myself to face this new loneliness, wanting to forget what has happened so far with me ...
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We would often like to start another story, another adventure, putting aside what has happened so far, putting it aside in a safe and hidden corner of ourselves, without letting it return in our thoughts and memories ...
Read more>>Trusting again
I'm Vanessa, a 50 year old who has collected many disappointing relations so far ... How can I regain the trust to jump into a new relationship, without many fears and defenses?
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The past disappointment can sometimes make us dry, not available to lose in the game, convinced that people hurt and abandon us, once "robbed " something of ourselves. In fact relationships hurt the most, what we have created and that we help to create together with the other person ...
Read more>>Without solution
My name is Sonia, I'm 43, I'm single from a long time and I no longer have the ability to build a long lasting relationship with a man, when it seems that things can be "serious " a little voice inside me pushes me to escape. .. but I want to start again to believe in the person that I will have next, without seeking for a faster escape before he does the same.
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The relationships do not repeat the same, in a monotone circuit of words and gestures repeated over time, but they are made up of people, of new and different dynamics that we can always make...
Read more>>New dates
I'm 52 years old, my name is Christine. Currently I'm not going out with a man from over a year ... the chances of meeting new people can be counted on the fingers. I want to meet a nice man with whom to spend my free time and hopefully, if I were really lucky, some one who will make my old age more bearable!
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This is a site that is born with the idea to create opportunities to date, initially virtual, to let themmake more real, going so far as to give rise to future project relations.
Read more>>Looking for a steady relationship
I'm Mark, I am writing because only now, at age 46, I decided to look for a woman with whom to build something lasting, maybe even a family. However, I am in trouble, I find myself in the awkward and insecure relationships with women, I've always been the opposite ...
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What brought you to this need? Stopping to think about what you are looking for in a relationship, what is your real desire, it can help to go in the right direction in finding the person for you ...
Read more>>Individual or open space?
I am Alexander, I'm separated from last 5 years. Now at the age of 54 I find myself again in the search for a soul mate, not being obviously managed to find her before ... I'm in fact looking for a woman who shares my passion ...
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The sharing should not be transformed into fusion, the experiences become important for both when they have meaning and significance for the couple and for everyone in it ... The couple is successful if it finds a proper balance of individual and relational spaces...
Read more>>Meeting online
I am Nick, I am writing because I find myself in difficulty to find my soul mate ... I can not reveal all of myself into a new meeting, and it is difficult for me to even really meet a woman.
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The virtual environment, in which the first contact takes place, can help you to express yourself more freely. The site may be for you a protected area, free from that sense of awkwardness and insecurity that hinders you in a real encounter ...
Read more>>Give or give yourself?
I'm Frank, as in the previous report, in relationships I find myself always to fill women with gifts, to spoil them, but at the first difficulty from my side they run from me!
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The need to give so many gifts often hides a lack of self esteem, it is a search for something that compensates all the things that lack... factor that contributes to structure relationships fragile and inauthentic ...
Read more>>Relationships and fear
I'd like to have a nice story, but at the same time I'm scared... I don't know how to handle it...
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Fear is a blocking emotion, it paralises you... but it's also an alerting emotion, it alerts you in case of danger, a real or symbolic one; therefore, it is necessary to get in touch with it, try to listen to it, ask yourself what kind of fear is that and where does it come from.
Read more>>Subject-object
I'm Angela... I began trusting men who filled me with... many lies, I let them "use " me, losing this way every sense of wanting to be loved...>
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Tell me about a loss you've had and how this experience has created a kind of disorientation in you, taking you to a momentary loss of yourself, of your needs. I think you should dedicate some time to yourself, listen to your feelings and desires...
Read more>>Taking care of yourself too
I'm almost 60 years old and I've got many delusions... I'd like to be loved and cuddled... I've worked a lot alone. Now I'd like to share that joy.
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These experiences, have probably gotten you used to take care of others, listen to their needs and adapt yourself to them... you've taked care of others for a long time, I think, now it's time for you to take care of yourself as well!
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